BLACK LIVES MATHERS

A mail l read on high mortality on black on black crime,in the city of chicago from 2001 to november 26 2015, show a shocking statistics a total of  7,401 black men were killed by black men,this is more than operation I raqi freedom and operation Enduring freedom in Afghanistan. 
It was stated that it will take 40 years for police to kill as much blacks,so black lives should mather firstly to blacks. According to FBI data 4,906  blacks killed other blacks in 2010 and 2011, that is 1,460 more blacks Americans killed by other blacks in two years than was lynched from 1882 to 1968.

 The most important thing 'BLACK LIFE MATHERS" advocates should note is that,it was clear and beyond contest is that it was black youths constant criminality that put them in close proximity with the law enforcement agents.As a legal practitioner,I will never surport extra-judicial killing,but the law of probability is in faviour of the man out on the street all the time,than those minding their own businesses indoors.

So advocate should be about getting youths off the streets,into class rooms thereby getting them set for crime free futures and less deaths in the hands of law enforcement agent.Watch all reality clips from CCTV cameras on crime commssion 98% of the time,blacks are the ones doing them.This is the time to break the cycle of crime.

FABULOUS LIFE

Can money buy happiness? The answer may be yes and No's,;happiness is relative. Money sure help a great deal'in handling life challenges. Living a fabulous life to some women is booking a manicure in a luxury spa or hotel and or having a live-maid;who do all the work at home;picking after her and the kids.l know; l had lived it before.n

For others;it is flying out her personal hair dresser;manicurist or makeup artist to meet her while on vacation;just for an unplanned party.another rich lady Frequently buy  diamonds for her nails.A real social snob cannot be seen dead in a public gyn;but personal trainers do
Visit them at home,also same goes for massages and beauty treatments..

I know a woman in a country where majority are poor; don't feed well.THis woman every Sunday pay a professional makeup artist;to get her set for church service paying #10.000 converted to $300 dolllars Just for one day;just to load tones of foundation called pancake here on her aging face. I sat close to three woman at the departure hall of Dubai international airport who just visited ASSIAWAN Spa at the Burj All Arab in Dubai; said to be the most luxury hotel in the world;travelling back to Nigeria. They couldn't stop rapping about the level of pampering and luxury unsurpassed by elsewhere they just had;setting them back with thousand of dollars.These are wives of OIl well barons;living off the common wealth of their people;throwing I'll gotten wealth around.

Every woman loves luxury things
taking it to the levelof diamonds on the nails is not okay.my greatest fear is that of been rich today and poor tomorrow;so l cant even play the game.
With the rampant kidnapping going on in the country right now;fabulous living is really dangerous now.Been charitable should be the in thing;for these money miss road women.

BRUCE JENNER TRANSFIGURATION AND TRANS GENDER ISSUES

Outline of psychiatry defines a transexualism as a deviancy where the person is physically normal,but has a total averson to his or her biological sex.

This means that a transexual is a person who emotionally feels herself or himself to be a member of the other sex and could have the sexual organs removed or altered in other to resemble the other sex.

I was shocked,confounded and stultified to see Bruce Jenner transformed into CATILYNA.I just could not get over it.I was formerly watching the reality programme KEEPING UP WITH THE KADASHIANs
until i got feed up with the family fake illusion of exagerated good life.They were just sucking up to the camera. He was always real to me,I never knew that under that calm exteror was a deep rooted despondency.

What would make a 65 years old man,after 3 marriages and 6 kids,suddenly realized that he was packed in the wrong skin, he told vanity fair paper, that he started taking female hormones,then met Chris Kadashian fell in love with her,then stopped the treatment.This means that he has not found a rapturous state in the marriage.

I just could not imagine the former Bruce with the now exaggeration of wantionness,with boobs,fake hair and not even acting like an old lady.Think of the confusion in the Jenner household. Father has totally vanished into thin air without been dead,now they have two mothers,his grand kids may be confused over what to call her,grandma from formerly grandpa

Trans gender people are totally confused people.These people need lots of sympathy and psychiatric treatments to pull them back to where they belong.The exagerated feminalism exhibited by most of them is out of a kind of forlorness.

Some time ago, a transgender prostitute named Jonathan "jackie"  Emerson,killed a handsome 21 year old man called Brad Lee Bass,he picked Jackie up,believing him to be a woman.He offended Jackie by pulling off his wig, and mocking him or her, and not wanting sexual favours from a "She" man,he or she stabbed him to death.During the extensive trial;the two major Seattle newspapers did not know what to call him.One called him "him" and the other "She". When he was convincted the correctional authority didnt not know where to send him to,female or male prison.

Now if a transgender person with complete complement of male equipment but sprouting fully developed female breast, want to use public rest room which one should he or she use? if entering collage which hostel  should he or she stay in? male or female

While some fluttering false eyelashes, are quite convincingly femine with more subtle mannerism, most are veteran of many mean street fights,so even as females are quite dangerious.Husky mascline voice are not changed by female homones.most are just homosexuals with cross-dressing

fetish,without any endocrine dyfunction,this set are often passive homosexuals.Bruce Jenner has come out to say that he is still sexually attracted to females,while he /she is asexual, only God knows the meaning of that.This druglgeny of turning from one sex to another is one of what the world, is getting from western civilization who see the rest of the world as enigmatical mediaeval anchronism.As these countries are not giving rooms to their ecentricism.What the future hold will certainly be a generation of scupulous and dim-sighted children.

PROBLEM WITH AFRICAN AMERICAN'S YOUTH

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A study had shown an anomaly in the incidence of murders in the United States.  In prosperous times,the proportion of murder in which whites kill whites goes down and in bad times,it goes up.But in black own case,it moves in opposite direction.

one psychologist attribute it,the phenomenon to the differences in goals and expectations of whites and blacks in America,It goes this way, because the white generally expect to get ahead,so are frustrated by economic down turns,while blacks,it is properity that creates a great disparity in the accessibility of goals,so frustrations are taken out on fellow blacks who are doing better.
 All these violence and rioting in cities across US each time a black youth is killed by the police,which often releases emotional arousal in the black communties,while they close their eyes and ears to the criminal activites of their youths.This is the ostrich way of looking at a picture,the question is,why are black youths always having issues with the police? becourse they are always hanging round the streets.If you are working,going to school,doing home works,good creational activity,how will you be dealing with law enforcement all the time.

It is an incontroverted fact that most blacks are unfairly barred from economic and political advancement.What are they doing to pick themselves up,to do self advancement.Do you blaim the society when you drop out of school,run around with gangs,pimps etc later in life when it is too late to get a life?the society or you.

Go to the incongruous streets where they live their gaudy lives, the setups are always deadends,grimy,graffiti charred,hookers,homeless,garbage stewed streets,school aged kids still hanging around during school periods.

Their lifestyles with big fake or real jewels make them to live like interloppers,viewed with suspicions and contempt when in responsible neighbourhoods.when some good black families who want good quality life move into afluent neighbourhoods,people who often see blacks as no good move out,as they dont want to be close to them.

Racial politics in America is as natural as breathing polluted air.Blacks even with the election of one of their own into the white house,had continue their slow inexorable decline political,economically too most are still unemployed,groundless,shiftless,bitter,but of couse with high school dropouts all over their communities,things arent gonna get better.

Why cann't they break free from self inflicted bondage,poverty, dependency,discrimination,victim mentality and social pathology.The world is feed up with their  wimping about been discriminated against.It is very possible,to get out from last position.Africans  who moved to America most had achieved all they set their minds on,with good education.The battle will only be won,if the parents have reorientions on the negatives from their own lives,they are passing over to the next generation,who will turn out just like them,at the bottom of the society.

PROBLEM WITH MOST AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMENRICAN

I saw an Aljezera programme on drugs and inner city youths,An African American woman was interviewed,she have seven children and six have been convicted for drugs related offences,totally shocking to me. In my society this is a total failure of parenting.

To me, the fundamental root of child deliquency  is lack of proper parenting.African A merican women are not living up to expectations,that is why there is a disappropriate ratio of their sons and daughters behind bars.we are always hearing of police shooting of both armed and unarmed black youths.Soul searching should be done by the parents, why are their kids always hanging around the streets,why are they involved in drugs dealing,pimping,gangsterizim,more than latinos,white ,Native American kids etc

I know it may not be right to be judgemental or sterotype ethnic groups,but most of these women exist in a state of utopia, vane,promiscuity,very melodramatic.Most are very preocuppied with such trival things like Brazilian hairs,partying,drinking,doing drugs to know what is happening to their tenage kids.life is one endless partying,they believe that the society has short-charged them,so no need trying to get any life,so live in limbo and the rule of the game is instant gratification.Brain dead bimbos,very aggressive,often with irritating sassy attitude.

They lack the firmness,moral justifications and self will to be role models to their kids,most black girls are sexually active from age12
like the cleveland 14 year old girl who became sex active since 12years ;she could not remember the number of sexual partners,she has had.She was found to be infected with four different sexually transmitted diseases plus AIDS.

Most black youths grew up in single parent house hood.A Woman could have 4kids for 4 different men,most are just having kids for child support like MEXICAN women are into child surpport scam,they can have six children from six different fathers and collect child surpport from all.most of my African brothers are paying child surpport for kids that was fathered through scamfrom mexican women(story for another day)Black women get more involved in high risk behavours,most are intarvenous drug users,high risk behaviours that exposes them to HIV and AIDS.

Most blaim economic factors for their wows,other women in other countries of the world also battle with poverty.Making a great effort to stand shoulder to shoulder with other racial group in America is very important and maintaning the dignity of womanhood too,is very important.The problem of inner city kids like gansterism,pimping,drugs,school drop outs,robbery etc can only stop if these women change their acts,as a leopard cannot give birth to an Antelope.As we say it here abeg get a life.

WHO IS A VAIN PERSON?

The greatest news to a true vain person is the discovery of the fountain of  youth, of course scientists and researchers has always been testing one concotion or the other;in search of endless youth solution.To remain 28 for ever is the quest of every vain person.Remove 20 years from the face,turn grey hair into the original colour,regrow the blad batch,become fitter,stronger,banish wrinkles forever.

Vain seekers can do any thing to be object of peoples glorification.Basking in the glory of been centre and admiration of people gives them oxygen,which they need as ordinary people needs air.

What constitute vanity,is it spending huge amount of time,in frount of a mirror,truely vain people will never pass a glass window or shop doors without turning to check out their images.They must never leave home without everything in place,no hair strang out of place,makeup very perfect,huge sum of money spent on looking good.money must be spent on "notice me" items.perfums,bags,jewels etc gym membership is a must;as punshing exersice regimes.Numerious facelights;botox injections for both men and women,check out most middle age movie stars with frozen faces.What will make a 60 years old woman go for breast augumentation painful operation,if not vainty.Check out the unatural bouncy breast on a very saggy body,totally gross.

Many movie stars become international stars using their vanity.What is kim Kardarhsan and paris Hilton selling if not vainty.Many industries are just there to feed on the vanity of these people, creating designer this or that for these people,holding them hostages to their fames.The billion dollars cosmetic industries,health farms,spas,cosmetic surgeons,dental surgeons,vitamin and other supplements etc all pandering to the quest of vain people.Now there are growth hormones.Growthing old is totally terrifying and horrifying to a truely vain person.

THE MEANING OF BEAUTY

There is a news item today that France as a Country has out-lawed the  the use of very skinny models in their fashion industry.This is a welcome development,but how will they determine what is   very skinny.The meanest occupation in the whole wide world to me,is to be a model or an actress.

The life of a model or actress is one of worries, "oh am l still young enough,could that be a crow feet,cellulate or wrinkle,is that a fold of flesh that ought not to be there "."am done for with a pimple on oscar night"
They must suffer,diet to distraction,gone without some life pleasures just to be tiny,endure the surgeon's knife,spend huge sum of money on expensive antiaging cream,buy designer clothings that will only be worn once for red carpets,it sure hurts.

In the entertaiment industry,audience are not interested in women who are not young and not beautiful.In the make believe world,every one must be beautiful and slim ,barbie like,to get jobs.They model clothes to be bought by real women out there who are not skinny,so why must they be skinny?.The male models and actors dont have these probems,there is no standard shape for them.Once they are tone and have burging muscles,they are good to go.They too often must keep looking young and so do some of these antiaging things too,to remain relevant,face lift,botox injections etc.No one want to play grandfather,s role,every one wants to be a boyfriend,maybe a father.




.Producers who are often ugly and fat,will determine how thin or slim the actresses will be to be in his movie.Often these girls have eating disorder.Do all sorts of thing to be slim.We have heared of women eating the eggs of tape worm just be slim,this is gross and totally deadly.

They just look like cloth hangers.Most of them become CARICATURE of each other,same size,same shape,annoying fake voices,all must be vane,trying to outshine each other.It is a mean world out there.Check them out on the red carpets,trying to out vane each other.The red carpet reporters during the oscars that just took place last month often ask them the highly irritating question of "who are you wearing".

Beauty is often equated goodness,a perfection of features is often equated with a perfection of soul,in the real world,it is never like that;a very beautiful person could habour the dirtest;the meanest,the deadlest soul, on the long run,beauty is still in the eyes of the beholder.

TEENAGE GANGS AND WOMEN TRAPPED BY FEAR OF VIOLENCE

I Went with my  friend to a hair dressing salon,in Bronx. As normal with salons,very noisy with different gist,then three young teenage girls came in,every where went deadly quit.Nobody was talking again,the dressers just abandoned every customer and rushed to the girls,all whites.These girls were dressed in a very rugged way,thorn denm,with very long artifical nail.  l got
the drift that these girls are very menacing,it was when we got home that my friend told me that the girls go by the name Tremont Avenue BITCHES (TABS)these girls togather with their male counterpart run the Avenue.These girls carry weapons,as they knew that any fight that starts is to the death. She said that the TABS,recently lost a member,a victim of inter-gang violence.

 Women who live mainly alone are often intimidated in many ways,such that these women are scared of stepping out side their homes,just talking back to any of these girl could get ones window smashed,home petrol bombed,and you just can not report them,if you have young children,who leave for school everyday.

Her next door neighour with three kids,was threatened by a fourteen year old girl,armed with a knife,becourse she claimed,she heared the woman wanted to snitched to the police.The teenage girl told her,that her gang members will fire bomb her house. For weeks,she could not leave her home.Two weeks later,the girl brought her gang who kicked down her door.They were all terrified and still could not tell the police any thing.
 Lots of shop owners had close shop to get away from these kids,some as young as ten.They can set fire to your car or steal it out right , or throw petrol soaked rag through your letter box. Kids dont play outside,people stay indoors and still sleep with one eye open. People dont want to get involved at all.Elderly people are often mugged on the street and passerbys cross to the other side of the street.
An 87 year old lady no longer leaves her home,this made her very angry,her elderly friends could no longer come and visit her as they would be mugged. Like she said,the gangs are no longer satisfied in robbing one,but also beat one up,no mather how old you are.It is indeed a very vicious and a more frightening world.

INNOCENT BUT BEHIND BARS

The courtroom oath---to tell the truth,the whole truth,and nothing but the truth--is applicable only to witnesses .Defence lawyers,prosecutors,and judges don"t take this oath.so telling the truth is relative.
 JEAN LEMALCHANCEUX said that the law protects us from barbarianism, but gives us the barbarianism of the law........A Crusader's journal.  

I watched a programme on Alijazeera,concerning the penal system in America,how lots of innocent people are behind bars due to  false witness testimonies.These testimonies were actually believed to be the truth by these witnesses at the time the case came to court.But with recent advance in forensic science, lot of innocent people had been set free.
 I watched a programme on Oprah Winfry show,it was a sad one. A black man spent 21 years behind bars for raping  a white woman.The poor man who was returning from a night shift was taken to jail. During the trial, the victim was adamant that he raped her.21 wasted years over false identification before he was proven innocent,the woman that accused him was also brought to the programme,she was sorry,but this could not give him those years back. Little wonder that there are thousands of African Americans behind jars.Athough their lifestyle choices, makes things kind of difficult for them.


In America, all huge black men are menacing and intimidating,so it is easy to subsitute one for another. I have always know that been at the wrong place at the wrong time can change the couse of one's life.Judges just act on the evidence before them,if you have poor legal representation, you are a gonna.State counsels are not interested in truth of mathers they are handling,but convictions to help their  career advancement.

 As a legal practitioner who is always in court,we all know that conviction can be faulty, especially  using circumstantial evidence. some judges are also so out of reality .I was in court for a hearing,the judge had to pass sentence on a young man of 26 years who was caught with a bag of marijuna.His lawyer tried his best,to get him off. He gave an allocutus....pleading for mercy for the accused person. He told the court, how the poor boy sick mother was in  the hospital and it was the search for money for surgery that pushed the boy,into carrying the marijuna for a dealer.I was stunned when the young judge on whom most of us female lawyers  have a crush on, sentenced the poor boy to 16 years without any possibilty of parole.I hate drug dealing but 16 years for just a small bag.l just thought of the poor mother in the hospital,waiting for the son to come and save her.
life can be so unfair.

CHILD BRIDES IN AMERICA

I love visiting rural or small villages in any country l travel to.I have never gone to gap at Buckingham palace, White house etc but natural wonders of the world like falls,mountains,canyons,etc .Hundred miles from Washington DC is Horse Creek,Clay county,in the wooded hill side of Appalachian mountain,South Eastern Kenturkey.

Here girls as young as 10 years often get married and have children as soon as they started menstrating.Most of these girls live in pure poverty in dilapidated wooden shacks,or trailer homes without tap water and no Toilet.Those that chose to remain in school,contend with home work,and child care.

One 12 year old,got married to a 74 year old man.They all live in a makeshift shack with his older son and grandchildren.The corner shop is a good place to get all the gossip one need about any small county.As each person is passing,the bored shop keeper will give a low down on the person.

Most of the girls are not working and live on welfare payments and food stamp,this is good as their counterpart in developing country dont get a dime from their government..

This is the bible belt,abortions are seen as sin.Some of the tenage brides are married to older men who had lost their wives.
A doctor in whose clinic a girl was born,later married the 12 year old girl,this is cradle robbing for real.Young boys of 16 years also marry younger girls and start off their own families,while living with mom and dad.

We are not talking about native American or black families here,but European American families.Protections against pregnancy are seen as sin.since most girls start breeding children from 12, just imagine the number of children at 45 or at menopause.Families from well to do homes, also practise this.Early marriages are seen as normal here,legally and culturally.

The essence of this story is for international bodies to stop their blah,blah about child marriages in poor countries, scratch the surface of so called first world countries,you will also see their own can of worm.The campaign to stop early marriages should be world wide, what is wrong in one place, cannot be right in another place, or over looked in another.A Girl of 10 years has no business with marriage and should focus on school.Most girls at this age still play with toys.
most of these girls give birth though cesaren section,as the birth canal are not well develop at this tender ages.

XMAS AT MY VILLAGE,MEMORIES OF MY FATHER PLUS A SNAKE BITE

Each end of year,l join millions of people travelling back to ancestoral villages for christmas and new year. l often dont know if to be sad or happy with the constant state of flux,with the expanding topography,the constant release of the last Agricultural land into the development market,while futher breaking down culture,making it easier the transformation of my beautiful rural village into just another soul-less haven for middle class angst..As l hiked round the remaining virgin forest this evoked reminiscences of a nostagic yester years.  

 In my youth,i was this stubborn head strong girl,l often delibrately go out of my way to rebel against my father. Making him angry gives me some kind of sadistic pleasure.My father was this mystical figure living in a french speaking country that often appears during the christmas,and we must return to the village from the town. My mother loved him to bites and i could not understand why we were not living with him outside the country.So just want to hurt him for not returning the huge love my mom had for him,to me if he loved us,he would stayed with us.

My father always want my sister and I to attend social gatherings in the village so as to get suitors from our village, marrying outside the village was out of it.to make him unhappy,I often holed up in doors with my novels. On that fateful day, the traditional ruler of our village was holding the yearly coronation ceremony, my father told every body for leave for the venue, once they all left, l went back to my room and continue with my novel. He came back after two hours and saw me in,he rushed for his cane and I ran out of the house.
 I went to my cousin's house and refused to go home till my mom sent my younger brother and sister to bring me home.On our way back home , l stepped on unseen snake and was bitten,.It was my smart kid brother that saw the snake,he is still very smart.we rushed home , l was rushed out for treatment and the drama started from there.
The villagers started visiting to find out if the snake was killed as they have this believe on the supernatural ability of the snake to hunt me down,as l took it fang during the bite.

once they were told that the snake was not killed,they informed the family that the snake will come in search of me to kill after ten days.My dear mom wanted us to run back to our town home miles away from the rural village. She was informed that the snake will still get me even in America.We  were in doubt, but wanted to prove them wrong so stayed back in the village.

On the10th night,l was really scared thinking that they might be right,the snake could actually come .We made sure our light generating set was in good order in case of power failure. The whole family gathered in the living room,my brothers collected matchets or big butchers knives from the people living around,l was kept in the middle and every one was waiting for the snake to come for me till the next day, it never did.These stories actually made the village fun,things have gone to the dogs right now,fun had gone for good

MEDICAL MARIJUANA----WHATSDAT?

 I have watched and listened to lot of medical programmes singing about the goodness of marijuana in the treatment of dozens of illnesses; ranging from cancer, parkinson,pains,depression,migraine,bipolar,Alzhimer,epiletic etc Doctors now want reclassfication of hemp for medical treatments.

 we were told that marijuana  was very addictive and causes mental illness.The three people close to me that smoked pot went stark raving mad.This hemp is an illegal drug in many countries of the world,even classfied by world health organization as very dangerious to health. Now various countries mostly in the west are now allowing a limited grow at homes in pots.People are now given licence to sale hemp to people for health reasons.so how do they regulate the growth,? how do you  regulate the prescription of the hemp,every one knows that you can get any drug you want from some kind of doctors.


 Yes there may be benefits to the smoking of this weed,but have they looked at the long time effect. They now produce hemp in various forms,vapourized form,liqudized form,in form of droups,cooking with it. These are far better than smoking hemp,as it has a very disgusting odour.

 Legalizing hemp smoking is going to leave a very sour taste for many people this hemp  destroyed the lives of their love ones.my best friend brother,s life  was totally destroyed by this .he started this in high school when he met an American deportee,as our youth are not even known to smoke anything.In little time he got hooked;started stealing,go out come back without his shirt or shoes,when the family stopped his pocket money.

 To remove him from his hemp friends,he was removed to start schooling in America,this was like adding gas to fire,what with those very terrible African Americans.most of whom have no life and dont do any thing to have a meaningful life.The family brought him home,then send him to Britain,once in LONDON he started moving with Jamacians.Every one in UK knew that these people are terrible once it comes to drug dealing.
 he cut every link with the family, I was in UK and the sister in US.l traced him to WEMBLY just  by ASDA shopping mall, in the home of a JAMICIAN drug lord,the sister flew in from US and we storm the address,the rough looking man with mattered hair that had never seen a comb as a RASTA , ran us off his terraced home with   long sword,totally hooked on some thing.


 The boy was brought home once more, about 18 years and useless.He was taken for treatment and kept running away.Ironically  he kept on returning to the sister,s exhusband,s home without understanding that they were divorced and both remarried.The man till today still kept him in his very large home.the poor boy  cannt even recorganize any of his relations. that when he was informed that their mum had passed on,he could,nt comprehend what the fuss was for.

Bottom line,the people in the medical line must be sure that the benefits of hemp is significant,as most people on hard drugs often start from hemp smoking.There are lots of social problems all over the world mostly fuelled by drugs.

TORTURE AND FUNDAMENTAL RIGHTS

I love Koran traditional movies set in era before the division of the country into north and south.People will always rebel against the king,s opressive rule,the rebels are always caught and tortured.The king will seat on the throne, while the rebels both male and female will be sitted,with thick heavy woods place between their legs while two people will be pressing their private parts and crushing the bones.The screams are always terrifying.I always close my eyes from the blooded scene.Am sure it was so in days gone by.

8th of December marked human right day and also 30 good years aniversary of the ractification of the law against torture.But nothing has changed; as American senate also release their report on torture.In the ancient time, when the Roman Catholic Church besotted the whole world as the ruler,torture was a common thing.People were tortured for going against or questioning the Church postion on God, the bible ,creation of the universe etc. Galileo an Italian scientist  was tortured and killed for theorizing that the world is round and not flat as the church taught.Now the cookies has crumbled for Catholic church.

In the modern world,torture  has not stopped,mad scientists are always researching on the most effective way of obtaining confessional statements from suspects.This was escabated by terrorism, these confessional statement often false,are obtained through means already outlawed.These people are dehumanized,depersonalized, deindividualized by torturers who are also deindividualized themselves;by who ever employed them.

The prisioners already institutiinalized,are less than human to the tormentors.They are made to pass through unsual pains,feeling no different from a Rat in cage.Think of the hooded prisioner going through water boarding,or one deprive of sleep or kept in a total darkness and isolated from other human beings for years.

We all know these are done in furdrance of a cause like State security or a high case like true Religion ,a political ideology or loyalty to a race,its effect can be galvanic. like the 17th centure French philosopher Blaise Pascal said "Never is evil done so thoroughly or so well,as when it is done in a good cause".

Obedience to authority is a deeply ingrained human attribute,so the people been used to carry out these acts become alienated to the terrible things they are doing.Though there must be an emotional tug of war between their conscience  and their humuan act of causing pains to others,but  they still dont see themselves as been responsible for the victims suffering.

Sure deviants will always exist in very society,the deep rooted anger of deviants should be looked into.When it comes to the global problem of the Radicalization of modern youths of certain religious believes,the answer should be in Education and Reducation.Ilitracy is a serious illness in developing nations.The rich Nations should not close their eyes to the problems of poor countries,after all,we all share common humanity.Sooner than later,there will be no place to hide.
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ADVENT OF TELEVISION AND INCREASING VIOLENCE

 

The 12 year old boy who was shot and killed by the police in United States from the video clips showed was holding a toy gun that look very real,people called the police who shot him at the park. people learnt through immitation,picking up the behaviour pattens they see around them,through a process called  CONDITIONING.,in which rewards and punishments some obvious,some subtle.These behaviour patten, often start from home,then progressively built up as strong influence from society comes into play..

Psychologist Leonard Eron carried out an experiment of a group of 875 children living in rural district of New York state over a long period of time.He studied first hand effect of television aggression on violent tendencies as they become young adults.The amount of time spent on violent films,determines the level of aggressiveness of the person as an adult.The Semai people of central Malaya,who are not exposed to television at all are very gentle people so said Anthropologist Robert Dentan,who spent a year living with them.

American rise to violence started from all the so called 'cowboys' films like 'THEY DIED WITH THEIR BOOTS ON' with Errol Flynn who played the role of General Custer 'LONE STAR TRAIL' 'FIVE BOLD WOMEN' 'SOME WHERE IN SONORA' 'BRONCHO TWISTER' etc.One of my brother in laws love watching the film 'FIRST BLOOD' so much that he named his son 'RAMBO'.Today the 18 year old boy is a criminal, moving from soft crime to hard ones.

Italians then started their Mafians films that triggered the highest level of violence,where nothing is left to the imagination, the films are bloody,the acceptance to the public ,made things terrible for growing impressionable young generation.
Bottom line,these violence in the name of entertainment on television and now internets has fueled many robbery,kidnapping,cannibalism,serial killing,gang membership;satanic praticses,ritual killings,drug taking etc.Every country is now caught up,there is no hidding place.Religious extremism had now taken violence to a frenzy levels, since the advent of televangelisn.American schools had become very scary places,where students and staff could be guy down by angry drug fuelled youths.All effects of over watching of violent movies.From what is seen right now,every one watches movies, whether rated 18 or not.This days parents dont care.Kids are becoming very strong willed,parents are too busy, to take note.Children are left on their owns,to seek whatever makes them happy.



In our own country,the best selling movies are RITUAL films,main actors,always meet voodoo witch doctors who will ask for human heads,breasts,private parts or new born infants to prepare get rich fast medicine, whereby a dirty poor person turns into a billionarie over night.what With high level of uneducated people, who often believe everything seen on the televison,ritual killings,cult membership,gangsterism,in real life becomes the order of the day,witch doctors start making neat cash.  People had disappeared never to be seen ever.people had never asked themselves why voodoo doctors are always dirty poor,always live in the slums,if truely they can make one rich after pounding a new born child into mince meat for some satan.Then in comes CULT films,now most university students belong to one cult group or the others ,they carry out robbery and kidnapping to fuel their high profile living.Parents now dont want to send their children to Nigerian universities, for fears of their kids becoming cult members.Parents perfer to send their kids to Ghana or Uk universities.At the end of the day,we are all paying the price for these movies,when you can not move around on foot,jog in the parks or streets,take walks,or even sleep with two eyes closed.

WHO ARE THESE TENAGE FEMALE SUICIDE BOMBERS

The two bomb blast that took place in kano city in Northen Nigeria was carried out by two tenage girls aged 13 and 15 years.The first bomb went off,while people gathered to take closer looks,the second girl wearing a Buka ran into their mist and denoted her own bomb;which killed about 60 people.

who are these girls? how do such young children got involve in terror aggressive behavours, who are their parents ,are they aware of the deadly missions of their daughters. people had theorized the 200plus kidnapped school girls from CHIBORK High school adopted 7 months ago,were converted from Christianity by force to Islam,then brainwashed into turning into suicide bombers.

We were told that male suicide bombers are brainwashed into believe that if one is killed in the course of fight 'holy' wars as they actually believed theyvwere doing, the immidate reward from God,will be12 virgins.These illiterates couldnt just wait to start ravaging the virgins,just rush to heaven without God inviting them first.pray, what do the instigators offer these girls? mulitiple hunks?.

l have always imagine the mind of a suicide bomber,moving into crowd to kill as much people as possible ,it must be a dark labyrinth of blackness, moving towards a never to return insurmountable preciple. What is the solution? invesigation by the government, to find out who these girls were and charge the people using these very young girls for crime against humanity.

VIOLENCE AND AGGRESSION--A PART OF HUMAN INSTINCT?

In london a young man is convicted of killing a catholic priest, strangled an old woman and stabbing another years back. his only explanation was that he 'enjoyed killing'
   The question is,is man violent by nature, is violence learned, can man master his aggressive impulses. What do we hear and watched every day? but tales of violence from all corners of the globe. Organised war fares, robbery,kidnapps,riots, vandalism.
    The idea that genetic defects might be responsible for criminal violence was proponded by the Italian criminologist Cesare Lombroso.This has been revived by other psychologists who suggested that an abnormality in the heredity unit or chromosomes could predisposes one to antisocial behaviour, while a group of Boston brain surgeons reported finding a high incidence of abnormal brain waves among prison population.This recieved surport when Charles Whitman in Austin,Texas murdered his mother, wife and shot 38 other people from the top of a university tower, a huge tumour was found in his brain.
 Charles Darwin in his theory of evolution believed that violence serves a useful purpose in the evolution of man,by enabling the fittest and strongest to survive by surpressing the weak known as social Darwinism. In 1908 British psychologist William McDougall called aggression ''the intinct of pugacity'' and stated that it was likely the most important factor in Man,s evolution as a social being.


 Konard Lorenz maintained that aggression in human being just like animals is instintive, but what makes man more destructive is the lack of built-in inhibitors against the terrible weapons fashioned by man. Think of Albert Einstein whose brilliant work in physics without his intention has now lead to the production of weapons of mass destruction fashioned by man.

If only man faught only with their fists and natural strenght like animals,things wouldnt have been this bad.but with the on going arms races,scientists now spend sleepless nights trying to out do each other researching on better destructive weapons;like Ronald Bailey in the book HUMAN BEHAVIOUR said ''these weapons came so fast that evolution has not been able to keep pace with them''
 Weaponary has become more complex and complicated that remote control is all that is needed now, think of drone aircraft, the aggressor never see physically the victims;so they are less than human. we are all in trouble for sure as how do you stop your creation into falling into the wrong hands. mankind is in very terrible and dangerious situation because man,s negative creative impulses certainly will bring the destruction of man in totality.

 Many others believed thet violent behaviour is not inate in man,sure some degree of aggression is; but man we are told more than lower animals is a learning being, whatever are his inate potentialites,his attributes is shaped largely by his experiences of the world, the values of his culture and specific institutions that is found around. Therefore the level of aggression and violence varies from culture to culture and importantly contacts with other people.to be contiuned.

COLOUR PERCEPTIONS AND RACIAL TENSION

To live other people's lives is nothing unless we live over their perceptions, live over the growth,the change,the varying intensity of the same--since it was by these things they themselves lived .AMERICAN GREAT NOVELIST ,HENRY JAMES   


 last week,l watched a news item on France24 on how a group of African students were attacked on a subway in  I NDIA without the police coming to their help.Just becourse they are black.There are millions of Indians in Africa.I went to school with lots of Indians,most of whom were born here in Africa.without any issues,they are in all the cities  of Nigeria i,n any trade one can think of.

The most important aspect of life is that your country of origin is totally independent of your decision..what determines one,s skin colour is geography and not divine intervention or favour,an imutable law is that the closer your country to the sun,the darker the skin,the futher away from the Sun, the paler the skin colour.
African students are seen as coming to take over jobs in host countries and other issues just like AUSTRIAN SCIENTIST Konrad Lorenz and Robert Audrey theories in the book AFRICAN GENESIS AND TERRTORAL IMPERITIVE made it clear that human being can become aggressive which functions to provide each individual with a sufficient space to ensure an ample food supply,especially these days of global mass unemployment.
   why are people ready to take in such humilation out side the shores of their country?l have travel to various to different countries of the world,l also have my own racial perception. when in America,am always scared of serial killers that l often dont step outside the apartment and dont generally sleep well and are also scared of young people going crazy and start killing every one in sight. In United Kingdom,am scared of PUNKS and SKIN HEADS who are in total rebellion against everyone.God forgive me,the people l totally dislike are African AMERICANS.the sassiness and the attitudes of their female folks drives me crazy, the lay back attitudes of their menfolk is totally well known that is why they still remain the dreg of American society.They equally hate Africans too.


People from so called third world countries would not have been moving to also so called first world(whatever that means) countries if their crude Machiavelian leaders who are only interested in their own  survivalist calculus,should work for their societies.while other leaders are working for betterment of mankind,they are all vain and egoristical self centered.Am glad to read that the president of BURKINE NABABE has just been pushed out of power after 27years in power without moving his country out of poverty.27 years ago he killed his best friend THOMAS SANKARA to take over power and wanted another two  terms of 5 years that would have been 37 years in power,this one of the reasons helpless citizens look for greener pastures.Leaving their countries to such power drunk presidents for lives without challenging them.It took that country 27 years to do the right thing of reclaiming their country from a tyrant.

WOMEN WHO VISIT MALE PROSITUTES.

      In a city in Northern part of this country, there are two classes of male  prostitutes,the one that accept female clients and the ones that are strickly GAY, so only accept male clients.The ones that service female customers are known with white handichief tied round the wrist while the gay ones tie yellow handichieves. Their territories are well known to the religious police. so who are the women who go looking for these guys to exchange sexual favours for money?

    What do lonely vibrant women do when their lives has become a rot? some are widowed,divorced, single, never married waiting on the lord,as it is said locally. it is impossible for others to understand how desperately lonely life can get when a women is alone. more so, in  jungle cities where every one is alienated from one another.you dont even know your next door apartment habitants. The married friends dont want unmarried friends near their homes,fear of husband snatchers in local language.

  These are suave and sophiscated women with good jobs and good money who suddenly found themselves on the shelf of life. Actaully,it s not all about sex in which case sex toys abound, but human touch, they often want some one to be in charge instead of them.They want to hold a conversation with another human and not with the television.so they are ready to pay a human companion.often they believe that these guys are just passing thing until the main thing arrives or until their social lives are sorted out.
   
some of these women are not happy or feel highly embarrased inviting these studs into their homes,one said the sex was good as most of these guy often take a lot of local sex stimulants,if you are not strong ,the actions of these young men who had taken lots of deadly stimulants ; if not, how do they get it up for every body on demand?
could land you in the hospital so said the banker,but  with a deep sense of loss and emptiness after the act.
  





Some of these women are just ok with these guys they believe as they are always unfortunate to pick the wrong guys who always dump them after leaving their pockets dry.So having been out  of disastrous relationships;one woman said she have been beaten up, insulted and vomited upon by a lover just because she was searching for a husband,so had made up her mind to go for guarantee sex without emotional attachment,that is pay for it.she has a particular customer the past one year and she is good with it.

  Some women found rather disorienting the rather clinical ways the action often took place rather disappointing. One said it often seem like a trip to a SPA.for one woman her date just went down to business by wanting if she wants oral or the main thing,collected his money and was out in a jiff.we have cases where husbands bring in these guys for their wives.






     The bottom line is that these women are very lonely,some are married but are still very very lonely , as husbands are busy doing their own runs.It is common knowledge that some people are in a marrage but are not married, and are much loner than singles, as they are totally enstranged from their husbands. One woman confessed that she had not made love with her husband in years.but both love their children too much so must aviod rocking the marriage.
    Some spinsters are in their fourties ,fifties with good jobs,no children;limited proposals ,work all day, only to return to a lonely apartment.

GET FIT AND STAY YOUNG

It is always surprising that people take good care of their cars, but neglect their bodies,you see them washing and polishing their cars but when it comes to the bodies, they dont care at all. Often when women hit 50years,there is an acceptance that is it ,the end of the road, while most men start enjoying their game of golf, tennis etc  
       So middle age spread start to spread out of hand.people start becoming fat and start lossing their self confidence and feel a total mess.JODY started spreading out after having two kids and since her husband did not complain she was ok with herself until she saw a picture they took during a vacation and was like who was that.This was a wake up call for her to do something about her fatness.she clear out the kitchen;threw out the chips,cookies,stop drinking and started the journey to reinvent herself.         

Some people have a genetic predosposition to being fat so always look "thick"often the eating habit adopted by a family can affect a whole generation, so breaking out of the unhealthy habit can have a life changing effect on even the propensities to some termina illnesses like high blood pressure, heart problems,diabetics even certain cancers etc. The most important part is having the tenesit y of purpose to to continue eating right and exercising right too..

 Reducing unwanted body fat requires inccreased cadio training and reduced caloric ontake. Start with a basic pressing movement to warm up your muscles, get into arobics and end with the threadmill,enjoy the greatvout doors but keep away from lonely roads and paths.
 SAFETY TIPS

1   Do exercise slowly---when lefting weight like I do,slow and smooth moves are the best, ensure the whole muscles benefits.

2 Dont hold your breath----Relax and have proper breathing.

3 PROGRESS GRADUALLY-----Dont jump into it, slow and steady is the key.

4 TRAIN-----Three to four times a week does it.


 5 STOP IMMEDIATELY  if you have chest pains,dizziness;light headedness; nausea or pain.

If you continue with these and eating right, you will be strong and healthy into dot ages.

ABUSE OF LIVE IN HOUSE HELPERS

When Micheal Kennedy died, the story of his affair with the family baby sitter was huge.The girl started working for the family when she was 12 years old,he lured her in,gained her trust and friendship. Awed for such a powerful man to have sheep eyes for her and totally inexperienced,she found his behaviour both uncomfortable and hard to resist.lewd lascivious men are everywhere.young girls serving the families are just like fresh flowers for them to harvest.    

 many young teenage girls found themselves in such situation as live in helpers and often start having secret affairs with the master of the house for many reasons ,some of them are emotionally needy,insecured and are from either troubled homes or poverty ridden homes.The men lured these girls into trusting them by been over nice,over flattery,preying into their insecurities,could try to be surrogate father figures to them.

 Joy was 14 years old when she started helping Tom's wife who just had a baby.She said that she found it confusing playing many roles to the family, mother surrogate to the baby,sister surrogate to the wife and quasi-girl friend to him.He then violated her,she said the sex was neither tender nor sweet, though she was young,she did not want an affair with him at all.often times these girls become emotionally dependent on the men violating them that they function on emotionally autopilot.

 The risk some of these men take just to bed young girls are baffling. When i was at the high school, my granny died and my mum took me to stay with her sister while she travelled home for the burial.Just the third day after my arrival,while fast asleep i felt a hand touching my young budding breast, l jump up to see my Aunty's very christian nice banker husband on my bed just next room to his room with his wife. As I got set to scream, he melted back into their bedroom. The next day l took my backpack and went home.


These girls often face double trouble if the Mistress of the home wise up to the affairs.Some had forced to have abortions on been pregnant ,before been thrown out into the street of course they dont have a say on whether to keep the babies or not. A medical Doctor whose wife is also a doctor had been exposing his privates and forcing the nanny to watch him masterbate himself.The girl told a neighbour who informed the wife who gave the girl a beating that landed her in a hospital for lying against her husband.

 One family got more than they bargained for when the head of the family started an affair with the house help.One day the girl told them her mother was sick and she was needed at home and asked the man privately for payment for all the sexual services rendered,the man called her bluff she left then one day headed to the school collected the baby from the school till date the 3year old baby and the girl who came from another country are yet to be found.


 It is all about men feeling that they have control and power over all female staying in their homes, the suffering these live in girls go through workin from dawn to dusk and the little time they have to sleep at night, the MEN of the homes cut in by snick in to sleep with against their will.



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