COLOUR PERCEPTIONS AND RACIAL TENSION

To live other people's lives is nothing unless we live over their perceptions, live over the growth,the change,the varying intensity of the same--since it was by these things they themselves lived .AMERICAN GREAT NOVELIST ,HENRY JAMES   


 last week,l watched a news item on France24 on how a group of African students were attacked on a subway in  I NDIA without the police coming to their help.Just becourse they are black.There are millions of Indians in Africa.I went to school with lots of Indians,most of whom were born here in Africa.without any issues,they are in all the cities  of Nigeria i,n any trade one can think of.

The most important aspect of life is that your country of origin is totally independent of your decision..what determines one,s skin colour is geography and not divine intervention or favour,an imutable law is that the closer your country to the sun,the darker the skin,the futher away from the Sun, the paler the skin colour.
African students are seen as coming to take over jobs in host countries and other issues just like AUSTRIAN SCIENTIST Konrad Lorenz and Robert Audrey theories in the book AFRICAN GENESIS AND TERRTORAL IMPERITIVE made it clear that human being can become aggressive which functions to provide each individual with a sufficient space to ensure an ample food supply,especially these days of global mass unemployment.
   why are people ready to take in such humilation out side the shores of their country?l have travel to various to different countries of the world,l also have my own racial perception. when in America,am always scared of serial killers that l often dont step outside the apartment and dont generally sleep well and are also scared of young people going crazy and start killing every one in sight. In United Kingdom,am scared of PUNKS and SKIN HEADS who are in total rebellion against everyone.God forgive me,the people l totally dislike are African AMERICANS.the sassiness and the attitudes of their female folks drives me crazy, the lay back attitudes of their menfolk is totally well known that is why they still remain the dreg of American society.They equally hate Africans too.


People from so called third world countries would not have been moving to also so called first world(whatever that means) countries if their crude Machiavelian leaders who are only interested in their own  survivalist calculus,should work for their societies.while other leaders are working for betterment of mankind,they are all vain and egoristical self centered.Am glad to read that the president of BURKINE NABABE has just been pushed out of power after 27years in power without moving his country out of poverty.27 years ago he killed his best friend THOMAS SANKARA to take over power and wanted another two  terms of 5 years that would have been 37 years in power,this one of the reasons helpless citizens look for greener pastures.Leaving their countries to such power drunk presidents for lives without challenging them.It took that country 27 years to do the right thing of reclaiming their country from a tyrant.

WOMEN WHO VISIT MALE PROSITUTES.

      In a city in Northern part of this country, there are two classes of male  prostitutes,the one that accept female clients and the ones that are strickly GAY, so only accept male clients.The ones that service female customers are known with white handichief tied round the wrist while the gay ones tie yellow handichieves. Their territories are well known to the religious police. so who are the women who go looking for these guys to exchange sexual favours for money?

    What do lonely vibrant women do when their lives has become a rot? some are widowed,divorced, single, never married waiting on the lord,as it is said locally. it is impossible for others to understand how desperately lonely life can get when a women is alone. more so, in  jungle cities where every one is alienated from one another.you dont even know your next door apartment habitants. The married friends dont want unmarried friends near their homes,fear of husband snatchers in local language.

  These are suave and sophiscated women with good jobs and good money who suddenly found themselves on the shelf of life. Actaully,it s not all about sex in which case sex toys abound, but human touch, they often want some one to be in charge instead of them.They want to hold a conversation with another human and not with the television.so they are ready to pay a human companion.often they believe that these guys are just passing thing until the main thing arrives or until their social lives are sorted out.
   
some of these women are not happy or feel highly embarrased inviting these studs into their homes,one said the sex was good as most of these guy often take a lot of local sex stimulants,if you are not strong ,the actions of these young men who had taken lots of deadly stimulants ; if not, how do they get it up for every body on demand?
could land you in the hospital so said the banker,but  with a deep sense of loss and emptiness after the act.
  





Some of these women are just ok with these guys they believe as they are always unfortunate to pick the wrong guys who always dump them after leaving their pockets dry.So having been out  of disastrous relationships;one woman said she have been beaten up, insulted and vomited upon by a lover just because she was searching for a husband,so had made up her mind to go for guarantee sex without emotional attachment,that is pay for it.she has a particular customer the past one year and she is good with it.

  Some women found rather disorienting the rather clinical ways the action often took place rather disappointing. One said it often seem like a trip to a SPA.for one woman her date just went down to business by wanting if she wants oral or the main thing,collected his money and was out in a jiff.we have cases where husbands bring in these guys for their wives.






     The bottom line is that these women are very lonely,some are married but are still very very lonely , as husbands are busy doing their own runs.It is common knowledge that some people are in a marrage but are not married, and are much loner than singles, as they are totally enstranged from their husbands. One woman confessed that she had not made love with her husband in years.but both love their children too much so must aviod rocking the marriage.
    Some spinsters are in their fourties ,fifties with good jobs,no children;limited proposals ,work all day, only to return to a lonely apartment.

GET FIT AND STAY YOUNG

It is always surprising that people take good care of their cars, but neglect their bodies,you see them washing and polishing their cars but when it comes to the bodies, they dont care at all. Often when women hit 50years,there is an acceptance that is it ,the end of the road, while most men start enjoying their game of golf, tennis etc  
       So middle age spread start to spread out of hand.people start becoming fat and start lossing their self confidence and feel a total mess.JODY started spreading out after having two kids and since her husband did not complain she was ok with herself until she saw a picture they took during a vacation and was like who was that.This was a wake up call for her to do something about her fatness.she clear out the kitchen;threw out the chips,cookies,stop drinking and started the journey to reinvent herself.         

Some people have a genetic predosposition to being fat so always look "thick"often the eating habit adopted by a family can affect a whole generation, so breaking out of the unhealthy habit can have a life changing effect on even the propensities to some termina illnesses like high blood pressure, heart problems,diabetics even certain cancers etc. The most important part is having the tenesit y of purpose to to continue eating right and exercising right too..

 Reducing unwanted body fat requires inccreased cadio training and reduced caloric ontake. Start with a basic pressing movement to warm up your muscles, get into arobics and end with the threadmill,enjoy the greatvout doors but keep away from lonely roads and paths.
 SAFETY TIPS

1   Do exercise slowly---when lefting weight like I do,slow and smooth moves are the best, ensure the whole muscles benefits.

2 Dont hold your breath----Relax and have proper breathing.

3 PROGRESS GRADUALLY-----Dont jump into it, slow and steady is the key.

4 TRAIN-----Three to four times a week does it.


 5 STOP IMMEDIATELY  if you have chest pains,dizziness;light headedness; nausea or pain.

If you continue with these and eating right, you will be strong and healthy into dot ages.

ABUSE OF LIVE IN HOUSE HELPERS

When Micheal Kennedy died, the story of his affair with the family baby sitter was huge.The girl started working for the family when she was 12 years old,he lured her in,gained her trust and friendship. Awed for such a powerful man to have sheep eyes for her and totally inexperienced,she found his behaviour both uncomfortable and hard to resist.lewd lascivious men are everywhere.young girls serving the families are just like fresh flowers for them to harvest.    

 many young teenage girls found themselves in such situation as live in helpers and often start having secret affairs with the master of the house for many reasons ,some of them are emotionally needy,insecured and are from either troubled homes or poverty ridden homes.The men lured these girls into trusting them by been over nice,over flattery,preying into their insecurities,could try to be surrogate father figures to them.

 Joy was 14 years old when she started helping Tom's wife who just had a baby.She said that she found it confusing playing many roles to the family, mother surrogate to the baby,sister surrogate to the wife and quasi-girl friend to him.He then violated her,she said the sex was neither tender nor sweet, though she was young,she did not want an affair with him at all.often times these girls become emotionally dependent on the men violating them that they function on emotionally autopilot.

 The risk some of these men take just to bed young girls are baffling. When i was at the high school, my granny died and my mum took me to stay with her sister while she travelled home for the burial.Just the third day after my arrival,while fast asleep i felt a hand touching my young budding breast, l jump up to see my Aunty's very christian nice banker husband on my bed just next room to his room with his wife. As I got set to scream, he melted back into their bedroom. The next day l took my backpack and went home.


These girls often face double trouble if the Mistress of the home wise up to the affairs.Some had forced to have abortions on been pregnant ,before been thrown out into the street of course they dont have a say on whether to keep the babies or not. A medical Doctor whose wife is also a doctor had been exposing his privates and forcing the nanny to watch him masterbate himself.The girl told a neighbour who informed the wife who gave the girl a beating that landed her in a hospital for lying against her husband.

 One family got more than they bargained for when the head of the family started an affair with the house help.One day the girl told them her mother was sick and she was needed at home and asked the man privately for payment for all the sexual services rendered,the man called her bluff she left then one day headed to the school collected the baby from the school till date the 3year old baby and the girl who came from another country are yet to be found.


 It is all about men feeling that they have control and power over all female staying in their homes, the suffering these live in girls go through workin from dawn to dusk and the little time they have to sleep at night, the MEN of the homes cut in by snick in to sleep with against their will.



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DEAD READING CULTURE,KILLED BY TECHNOLOGY.

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MY Four books of all time are 1,WITCHING HOUR. by Ann Rice, BONTIFIRE OF VANITY by Thomas Wolfe. WAR AND PEACE by Tolstoy. CRIME AND PUNISHMENT by Pyodor Dostoevsky. lhave read hundreds of books so should know.w


   I started reading very early in life.Istarted with fairy tales like snow white,  beauty and beast etc.Then blue beard and his murdered locked wives,which really scared me.Then ARABIAN NIGHT ENCHANTING STORIES,LIKE SIMBAD THE SAILOUR I was there with him.I moved into folklore era with GREECE FOLKLORES,ENGLISH FOLKLORE,but the one that had a long lasting effect on me was FOLK TALES FROM SCOLTLAND.looking for it to read once more.

   Then I graduated into romantice stories,like MILLS AND BOOM.DENNIS ROBINS.really believing in the happily ever after stories. then I graduated into crime stories with JAMES HARLEY CHASES I bought and own all his books like MISS BLANDISH WAVE A WAND.THE THINGS MEN .COME EASY GO EASY.l read them all and lost all to my brothers friends.SIDNEY SHELDOM .DAN BROWN.ANN RULE who is a wonderful crime writer.many many  novels which i had spent a lot buying reading.Even science fictions. MYSTICAL WRITERS like India mystic ROSPSY RAMPA fasinated me at a time.DENNIS WHEATLEY,STEPHEN KING etc.

   when it come to religious and so called inspirational books,I have read the Bible,Koran,Gray message volumes in THE LIGHT OF THE TRUTH,AMOC etc in search of the truth about why are we here and how. those books like how to be a billionaire and how to be sucessful in life bore me to hell.Had never finished one.These books are kind of fake to me.I had always believe one need hard work and very good luck to be rich, which is also relative.

  Now what do you have? no body is reading any thing again.in my hey days high school graduates walk about with fat novels like TAI-PAN. SHOGUN by James Clavell.  MANCHU by Robert Elegance books by MAUGHAN SOMEREST. books by GRAHAM GREENE like BRIGHTON ROCK etc as nerds to show off to girls, While girls move around with Barbara Bradford fat novels like A WOMAN OF SUBSTANCES ,HOLD THE DREAM, THE WOMEN IN HIS LIFE ETC .JILL COOPER novels ,JUDITH KRAVTNS books just to show the boys that they are sophisticated.

   like i said; not any longer.Every body is into movies, GAMES, PINGING.W.ho want to read when one can spend the time watching movies like HARRY POTTER SERIES for younger children, X MEN LORD OF THE RINGS,SMALLVILLE,300,GAME OF THE THRONE,24 etc for boys and MEXICAN SOAP OPERA,now we have SOAP OPERA from PHILIPHINES and SOUTH KOREA are into serious film making.I love KOREA traditional movies with the beautiful clothes worn in the movies, can even speak a little and am heading there for my next vacation out of curiosity after watching a lot of their movies. Even E-BOOKS are not working young people hate  fat books and are totally bored with any thing more than text from their schools.  READING IS NOT JUST COOL.
  
  So been a best writer now  means nothing  at all, expect if the books areturned into movies. The Nigeria wave making celebrated author CHIMAMANDA NGOZI ADICHIE was just an object of curiosity to people who had heared of her books like PURPLE HIBISCUS, HALF OF A YELLOW SUN ,THE THING AROUND HER NECK, AMERICANH She only became famous when the book HALF OF A YELLOW SUN was turned into a movies and was showned in movie houses all over the country. to get young people to start reading will be pretty hard now with all these weapons of technology around them.Nobody cares about spoken English now, as no one cares onces you can bing understandable words.
 so what is to be done depend on the parents to help very young children to reclaim the lost reading culture, and get into the joy of it.

SERIAL RAPISTS

 A girl,a sickle cell patient was raped and strangled as she left the  sickle cellclinic late at night.she was gang rapedfirst before she was killed.what lead people to get carried away by act of sexual gratification, that they can kill for 5minutes pleasure?

  Rape is not new to any society,even in the bible we were told how Tamar a virgin daughter of king David was raped by her half brother Ammon. Dinah daughter of Jacob was raped by Shechem a randy prince of Hivites.

  The number of reported cases has gone up.About one in six women had been raped at one time or the other.most of the rapist because of societal pat in the back often become serial in nature.Some perverted men even rape snot dribbling 12 month old babies.one man was caught recentily in Nigeria raping a dog,he confessesd it was the 4th dog he raped and was bitten by two of the dogs. one even raped a chicken for real,can you beat that.I believe that beastality could have something to do with the EBOLA out breaks.Mad men raping MONKIES,APES,BATS etc

  most raped victims dont ever forget the incident. They are often trumatized.Some dont even report the act,as often police are very hostile to victims, wanting to know why they went there,the type of cloth worn and if they were wearing make ups, if they are virgins and other silly questions.So only one in 25 women often are bold enough to report rape and attend court hearings.most hate seeing the rapist at courts.The rape incidents could ofen mare victims future relationships with partners.most dont want any contacts with opposite sex.

  A rape survivor said "The rape itself was very painful, bloody painful.After he bit my nibble,i just went on with it because of fear of been killed. Part of the trial was terrible, the defense lawyer told the court that the assilant was able to bit my nipple because my nipple was hard, instead of soft, implying that i must have been aroused, can you beat that. The Judge was nodding to that. He was totally out of touch that i wanted to ask if he has daughter at all".

 57% of rape victims are children below 17 years and are often raped bypeople very close to the family.That male relative staying at your home, the teacher who has special interest in your child,that house help in your home taking charge of the kids while you are working,cooks ,drivers, gardeners,the very nice boy next door could be the one and the kids may never tell as they are often told they will be killed if they do.or blackmailed in some ways often believing they are bad and to ne blaimed for the rape.

  The light sentences given for rape can never deter any body for becoming serial on it.A guy convicted of rape four good times was set free only to attacked two sisters at home soon after.while the incident of rape has risen, the conviction for rape has fallen,to make mather very bad,previous rape convictions or reports are not taken into into consideration during sentensing, why,why.

ILLEGAL MIGRATION

  Amerca had just deported hundreds of children back to Latino countries like Honduras,Guatamela etc. It is real worrisome that parents dump very young children at north American boundary to go into an unknown country without any friend, family etc just to pursue the American dream.Certainly these latino countries have a lot of problem with drug gangs.Teneage boys are forced into drug gangs and there are always wars with rival gangs,and life expectancy is very short mostly in Hondura and Guatamala.
 
Why do people in so called third world countries always believe that grass is greener on the other side. Day in day out hundreds of dead rickety boats carrying thousands of people are rescured off the coast of Lampogini in Italy.Recently,500 of them were pronounced dead.

  Most come from countries like Eritea Ethiopia,Libya,Nigeria,Algeria,Somalia,etc.Most travel by road across the Sahara desert to Morocco the country that have a boundary with Europe. The trip to that country is always ridden with danger, they are often attacked by bandits often times killed  ,some are bitten by dangerous desert snakes,no water, nor food, some just ran mad and ran into the desert never to be seen again, while relations at home will be waiting for euros and dollars,as no one will tell them what happened to their love ones.Only the tough resiliant ones make it to Morocco for the second leg of the trip to Europe their EDORADO.

  These immigrants have become a big burden on Italian government.They are taken into shelters, feed and documented, most are not educated and not trained for any thing all and not employable, but only fit for menial jobs in farms. Most of these immigrants often target  European countries like France; Germany,United Kingdom etc.These people are used as slaves in these countries, and dont have any voice. we have seen picture of a black immigrant recorded as he was cought,killed like a cow, used as meat to cook and eaten by a group of young people in a South Asian country they recorded it and posted to the internet, they were not bothered been seen as cannibals.




   The most irritating ones, are those of them that start looking for political asylum even when there is no problem in their country.They run their government down just to be given papers to stay in Europe.The women among them will claim that they are runing way from female circumstitions which will be forced on them or their children, or some other breech of their human rights if they go back to their countries of origin.All the lies in a desperate bid to remain in Europe.

   By the time they get there frustration sets in.Most are living from hand to mouth doing the kind of menial jobs, they wouldnt have looked at in their own countries.Most marry and cuddle up to OCT-and NONAGENARIANS women just to get documents to remain in Europe. some are already married before leaving home with children.

  By the time the immigrants who are even unemployable returns home, they just realised they had wasted their lives chasing rainbow in Europe..go to piccadelly train station in london,you will see them.worned out decrept men sweeping the coaches and streets of london with trumphant energy. so all desperation and heroic energy to move to Europe has ended with a rusty broom cleaning the streets.The dreams, hardihood, comprehending all the perills and valor are all rewarded by heraldic honor of a street cleaner , returning to a dingy council home at the end of the day.

   check out the easy condescension and kind forbearance of the African cab drivers at Heathrow airport, their dexity at cheating is a story for another day.Most claimed to be University graduates with life pointless and inefficacious.

  so while dashing off to Europe and America and dreaming of ELDORADO in their youth, who can see an inch into future,beyond his nose? towing day and night like Irving's headless horseman, ghastly and grim,longing to come home but sentenced by the quest for green card or resident permit to a pauper,used dry and flung aside forever. what do you become, but a dark labyrinth of mind moving toward an insurmountable precipice.