PROBLEM WITH MOST AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMENRICAN

I saw an Aljezera programme on drugs and inner city youths,An African American woman was interviewed,she have seven children and six have been convicted for drugs related offences,totally shocking to me. In my society this is a total failure of parenting.

To me, the fundamental root of child deliquency  is lack of proper parenting.African A merican women are not living up to expectations,that is why there is a disappropriate ratio of their sons and daughters behind bars.we are always hearing of police shooting of both armed and unarmed black youths.Soul searching should be done by the parents, why are their kids always hanging around the streets,why are they involved in drugs dealing,pimping,gangsterizim,more than latinos,white ,Native American kids etc

I know it may not be right to be judgemental or sterotype ethnic groups,but most of these women exist in a state of utopia, vane,promiscuity,very melodramatic.Most are very preocuppied with such trival things like Brazilian hairs,partying,drinking,doing drugs to know what is happening to their tenage kids.life is one endless partying,they believe that the society has short-charged them,so no need trying to get any life,so live in limbo and the rule of the game is instant gratification.Brain dead bimbos,very aggressive,often with irritating sassy attitude.

They lack the firmness,moral justifications and self will to be role models to their kids,most black girls are sexually active from age12
like the cleveland 14 year old girl who became sex active since 12years ;she could not remember the number of sexual partners,she has had.She was found to be infected with four different sexually transmitted diseases plus AIDS.

Most black youths grew up in single parent house hood.A Woman could have 4kids for 4 different men,most are just having kids for child support like MEXICAN women are into child surpport scam,they can have six children from six different fathers and collect child surpport from all.most of my African brothers are paying child surpport for kids that was fathered through scamfrom mexican women(story for another day)Black women get more involved in high risk behavours,most are intarvenous drug users,high risk behaviours that exposes them to HIV and AIDS.

Most blaim economic factors for their wows,other women in other countries of the world also battle with poverty.Making a great effort to stand shoulder to shoulder with other racial group in America is very important and maintaning the dignity of womanhood too,is very important.The problem of inner city kids like gansterism,pimping,drugs,school drop outs,robbery etc can only stop if these women change their acts,as a leopard cannot give birth to an Antelope.As we say it here abeg get a life.

WHO IS A VAIN PERSON?

The greatest news to a true vain person is the discovery of the fountain of  youth, of course scientists and researchers has always been testing one concotion or the other;in search of endless youth solution.To remain 28 for ever is the quest of every vain person.Remove 20 years from the face,turn grey hair into the original colour,regrow the blad batch,become fitter,stronger,banish wrinkles forever.

Vain seekers can do any thing to be object of peoples glorification.Basking in the glory of been centre and admiration of people gives them oxygen,which they need as ordinary people needs air.

What constitute vanity,is it spending huge amount of time,in frount of a mirror,truely vain people will never pass a glass window or shop doors without turning to check out their images.They must never leave home without everything in place,no hair strang out of place,makeup very perfect,huge sum of money spent on looking good.money must be spent on "notice me" items.perfums,bags,jewels etc gym membership is a must;as punshing exersice regimes.Numerious facelights;botox injections for both men and women,check out most middle age movie stars with frozen faces.What will make a 60 years old woman go for breast augumentation painful operation,if not vainty.Check out the unatural bouncy breast on a very saggy body,totally gross.

Many movie stars become international stars using their vanity.What is kim Kardarhsan and paris Hilton selling if not vainty.Many industries are just there to feed on the vanity of these people, creating designer this or that for these people,holding them hostages to their fames.The billion dollars cosmetic industries,health farms,spas,cosmetic surgeons,dental surgeons,vitamin and other supplements etc all pandering to the quest of vain people.Now there are growth hormones.Growthing old is totally terrifying and horrifying to a truely vain person.

THE MEANING OF BEAUTY

There is a news item today that France as a Country has out-lawed the  the use of very skinny models in their fashion industry.This is a welcome development,but how will they determine what is   very skinny.The meanest occupation in the whole wide world to me,is to be a model or an actress.

The life of a model or actress is one of worries, "oh am l still young enough,could that be a crow feet,cellulate or wrinkle,is that a fold of flesh that ought not to be there "."am done for with a pimple on oscar night"
They must suffer,diet to distraction,gone without some life pleasures just to be tiny,endure the surgeon's knife,spend huge sum of money on expensive antiaging cream,buy designer clothings that will only be worn once for red carpets,it sure hurts.

In the entertaiment industry,audience are not interested in women who are not young and not beautiful.In the make believe world,every one must be beautiful and slim ,barbie like,to get jobs.They model clothes to be bought by real women out there who are not skinny,so why must they be skinny?.The male models and actors dont have these probems,there is no standard shape for them.Once they are tone and have burging muscles,they are good to go.They too often must keep looking young and so do some of these antiaging things too,to remain relevant,face lift,botox injections etc.No one want to play grandfather,s role,every one wants to be a boyfriend,maybe a father.




.Producers who are often ugly and fat,will determine how thin or slim the actresses will be to be in his movie.Often these girls have eating disorder.Do all sorts of thing to be slim.We have heared of women eating the eggs of tape worm just be slim,this is gross and totally deadly.

They just look like cloth hangers.Most of them become CARICATURE of each other,same size,same shape,annoying fake voices,all must be vane,trying to outshine each other.It is a mean world out there.Check them out on the red carpets,trying to out vane each other.The red carpet reporters during the oscars that just took place last month often ask them the highly irritating question of "who are you wearing".

Beauty is often equated goodness,a perfection of features is often equated with a perfection of soul,in the real world,it is never like that;a very beautiful person could habour the dirtest;the meanest,the deadlest soul, on the long run,beauty is still in the eyes of the beholder.